When one of my closest friends reached out to me about going to the pumpkin patch I felt like a kid being asked to go to Disneyland. I forgot the fact that I was just going to just relax during the day after an emotionally trying week and quickly got ready for the adventure ahead. I love autumn; the hayrides, pumpkin spice everything, football, crisp air, the color of the leaves. To me, there is NO better season, so I was ready to go!
The drive to Yoders Farm was a beautiful drive; the colors of the trees, the open road, music playing, thoughts running. And lets not forget the pit stop I made at Joe Beans Coffee to grab myself and Courtney our iced pumpkin spice lattes. It was about a 25 minute drive filled with excitement for the fall day with my friends and their kids. The only thing that was NOT ideal was the fact that it was 75 degrees out (its October. Virginia needs to do better). I would have loved to say that the drive included my windows down and a beautiful fall breeze, but unfortunately I had to have my ac on for a part of the drive.
As my GPS turned me onto the country road and I saw all the trees in their splendor, I couldn’t help but think about how simply the trees let go of their leaves each season. It is definitely hard for me in my own life to let go of things. I tend to hold onto things, allow things to build up in my life- and then eventually it builds up so much that I explode or I cry for days on end. Either way, it is not the healthiest way to deal with things that arise in our lives or that attempt to creep in from our past. I definitely need to be more like trees in the fall; I need to learn to let go of the things in my life that no longer need to be present. The Lord takes me into different seasons of my life my friendships, relationships, my future dreams change. In those moments there are often times that I need to let things go- and sadly sometimes that includes friendships, relationships, a job, a future dream.
As each year passes there seems to always be a guarantee that change will happen in life. Change is something we can tend to become anxious about because we have zero control of it. I often find myself clinging to Jeremiah 29:11 in moments of fear. This scripture reminds us that God has a plan for our lives; one filled with hope and a future. If we learn to rely on this promise and trust in God- we will continue to grow to become more like Christ. It would be easier to respond and act to the many changes that lie ahead in this thing called life. The Lord will ask us to forgive those who have hurt us, to step out in faith, and at one point or another He may just ask us to let go of things that we so desperately want to cling too. Whatever the case He does these things to help us, to protect us, to grow us, and to show His unconditional love for us.
Letting go (aka total surrender) is one of the most freeing experiences; we find so much freedom when we let go of the things that are hindering us from growing. Our pasts and our present don’t have to have control in our lives. We can let go of the things that feel as though they are weighing us down and surrender it to the Lord. Nothing is too much for Him to handle or too big for Him to take control of.
The best thing to do when feeling overwhelmed is to talk to your Heavenly Father . You can talk to Him about the blessings you see pouring into your life, the struggles that arise, the pain from the past, and even your fears for the future. God is there to love you unconditionally, guide your steps, take your burdens, and fill you with joy. When we try to control our lives, hold onto the struggles we are faced with, and refusing to let go of the things weighing us down- its hard to live out the life that the Lord designed for us to live. I am in no way saying that it will be easy, I have to pray each day to let go of things that have a hold on me- but when I do talk to the Lord about the things I am faced against, He fills me with a peace that is indescribable.
No matter what season you are in, the Lord is standing by ready for you to let go of your control and trust all that He has for you!